Gay Wedding Rings

Getting a custom made ring for your engagement or wedding can both be a sign of your love or the need of your partner. It often happens that our partners need custom-made rings that may be their accomplice all the time. For instance, if your partner is a chef, they will need a ring that they can wear even while working; a ring that will not prove to be an obstruction while making cuisines. Similarly, sometimes some people have unique hands or finger sizes and thus, it becomes extremely important to get a custom made ring. Thus, I am going to tell you a few tips on choosing your gay wedding ring.

Here is a list of things that you need to see before making the finally pick:

1. Choose a gem that suits your partner. Gems are meant to be chosen according to the sun signs. Besides, Diamond has become such a common choice that people hardly want it. Thus, it is a good idea to go for a different gem- ruby, amethyst, emerald etc. Besides, you can choose gems of the colors that form a part of the gay-pride flag.
2. You should choose a ring with a symbol to show the society that how comfortable and proud you are being who you are. The symbol of male with a circle and an attached arrow was the astronomical sign of mars during the times of Romans. These days entangled Mars symbols depict gay pride and the love between men. In case of lesbian wedding rings, the designers may use a triangle as a sign of gay pride. However, more often used symbol is the symbol of Venus. Venus is not only a sign of Lesbianism but is also used to depict the power of a woman.
3. Look for the freedom rings. Freedom ring is essentially a symbol that is used to show gay pride and form an integral part of gay pride jewels. Freedom ring is a symbol made up of six rings where each ring is of a different color and each stands for a different quality. Orange stands for healing, red shows life, green means nature, blue depicts harmony and yellow is for sun. The concept of freedom ring was designed by David Spada. Thus, get freedom rings on your wedding band to depict a desire for the beautiful qualities.
4. Choose a suitable material for the wedding band. Till a few years back, gold was supposed to be the best choice for a wedding ring. Gold, as an expensive element, vouched for the fact that the suitor is capable enough of meeting the financial needs of his partner. However, things have changed now. However, the needs in a marriage have undergone gradual changes with time. The need for emotional support has become more than the need for financial support. Thus, the choice of material for wedding bands has expanded too. Some designers use materials like stainless steel to make unique wedding bands.
5. The style of the ring. There are many different styles to choose from. You may go for a simple wedding band or you could go for a more Victorian style. The choice of patterns to choose from is innumerous. All you have to do is choose a style that will suit and look good on your partner`s finger.

These are the few tips that you should keep in mind while buying a ring for your gay wedding. These are going to prove to be a big help.

A wedding ring is an exquisite affair. Choosing a perfect wedding ring is not only important because your partner expects you to make the best choice for them. More often than not, it is also important because of the practical reasons. For instance, if your partner is a doctor, they cannot wear a ring that has engravings or protrusions or the kind which can cause hindrances with their work. In case of gay wedding rings, it is very important that you choose a designer who knows his job and has idea about various gay symbols and meanings, so that he can use his own creativity to make your ring look like a masterpiece. I can tell you a list of things that you should keep in mind while getting a perfect lesbian wedding ring designed for the love of your life.

1. The use of gems is very peculiar in wedding rings. Gems add a lot of charm to the ring. They add to its beauty. However, beauty is not the only reason why gems are added to the wedding rings. Gems are incorporated in the weddings based on the astrological signs. Every sun sign has a gem and wearing that gem will affect a person positively. Thus, if you want give your partner a ring that can benefit them in different ways, give them a ring with their birth stone engraved in it.
2. There are many Gay pride symbols which have a history of their own. If you are proud to be who you are and want to make your identity prominent and clear, you should gift your partner a wedding ring with a gray pride symbol engraved on it. An inverted triangle is a symbol of gay pride. However, this symbol is more frequently used in case of gay wedding rings. For a lesbian wedding ring, the best symbol to get marked on a ring is the sign of Venus. Venus is the sign of womanhood, their power and their strength. The symbol of Venus is also used as a symbol of Lesbianism. Thus, you may get a Venus symbol made on your partner`s ring to flaunt your love and orientation.
3. The freedom rings is also a symbol of gay pride. This symbol was designed by David Spada. Each ring is of a different color and stands for a different attribute. Red is for life, orange is for healing, yellow for sun, green for nature and blue stands for harmony.  One can also get a freedom ring marked on a lesbian wedding ring.
4. The choice of the material is also very important. Whereas gold is the most usual choice for obvious reasons, materials like stainless steel and platinum have also become quite popular in these days. For getting rings with various symbols engraved on it, stainless steel will be your best bet. Similarly, there can be many other options too. Make a choice keeping in mind the choice and likes of your partner.

It is such good news that you are getting married. Let me share with you that I have spent my entire life planning my own wedding and I know for sure that if you are getting married, you must be giving days to plan everything perfectly. One of the very common questions that gay couples ask before wedding is – which finger for my gay wedding ring?

The answer is – the one that you like. Yes, in my personal opinion you should choose a finger that speaks about what you want to tell the the world about your relationship. If you wish to specify and tell world about your sexual orientation and that you are committed to a gay partner, you could choose to wear your wedding ring on the same finger as the engagement finger but only of the right hand. Gay people choose this finger to tell the world that they are different from the heterosexuals. Similarly, you can choose any other finger as you want. The wedding ring finger was supposed to be the fourth finger of the left hand as it was believed that the veins running from this finger (vena amoris) reaches the heart. However, things have changed now and people see their love above these things and hence, if you have faith in your love and you are committed, no matter what finger you choose, your love will last forever.

Some gay people choose to wear their wedding bands in the same finger as do the heterosexual people. There are basically two reasons for it – because they want to show the world that their relationship is just like any other heterosexual couple’s or it may be due to some professional reasons. For instance, people working in army are not very much in the favor of exposing their sexual orientations and hence they like to wear their wedding band in the traditional ring finger of the left hand like any other couple. Similarly, there could be other reasons as well.

Thus, to answer your question, which finger for my gay wedding ring, choose the one that you like. Choose a finger that you think you want to see your gay wedding ring on. If you want to make it a point about your sexuality, make it the ring finger of the right hand. And if you want to prove that you are like any other heterosexual couples in this world, you should go for the traditional engagement finger of the left hand. Lastly, if you just want to seem different from all the other married people, go for any random finger.

I hope now you know your answer. Have a Happy Married Life.